It can take some of us quite a bit longer than others to find ‘the one’ for us and much soul searching, Bridget Jones nights in alone (maybe not cooking with blue string but definitely the wine and slippers!) to work out what we really want in our ideal man.  We may well get to the point where we not only have a list of the qualities that we want but have interrogated it to within an inch of his life.  So… you’re ready to find the one and you’re clear about what you want and that what you’re looking for fits with your values and you know there are compromises and you know what you can live with and what you can’t.   So far so good?   So what have you got to offer?  Please don’t take that question the wrong way but what is it about you that you could offer someone for a lifetime of contentment on both sides?  If you realise your own value it will make your search so much easier because once you are confident about yourself and just how much you have to offer, you will be amazed what and who will come your way…